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Kitchen Nightmares

Life has been insane...we have been without a kitchen almost 4 months now.  Seems everything we do requires the kitchen or laundry room, we've cooked on the gas grill out back, the electric hot plate, the pizza oven or the microwave but the more difficult part is cleaning up.  Sir installed a utility sink in the basement but it is just so hard.

Sir worked like a crazed man today hanging drywall and got about a third of it up.  I went to WhipNic, usually it's better if i'm out of the way, lol.  i know i've made this more difficult with all the additions i keep throwing out there but we won't be down to the studs again and it just seems to make sense to do it now.

Today was waxing day, Sir has been working from home three days a week, i try very hard not to distract him, the savings in gas, travel time and dry cleaning are really nice.  Tomorrow is one of his days in the office but remissiva and i are going to the construction warehouse to look at some additional cabinetry so i won't be here anyway.

Play has been almost non existent, between #3 living with us and Sir trying to put in as much time in the kitchen there just isn't any left.  As much as i hate that. i would hate to be still renovating the kitchen on Thanksgiving, trade off i guess.

Ok, off to find something to eat quell this ongoing nausea!

Tough Weekend

This picture was taken from our front yard!

This weekend is already shaping up to be a tough one.  While i was over at remissiva's house doing laundry (and enjoying an awesome Mexican lunch!) Sir called to let me know that our neighbor's house was on fire, thankfully they all got out safely but it brings back into focus that this entire subdivision is wired with aluminum wiring and it could happen to any of us.  Sir has rewired every room that we have remodeled but still a scary prospect.

Then we went with our daughter-in-law to pick up a Craig's List sofa and helped to move her out of our son's house, they had decided to separate a while back but had continued to share the house to save money.  i'm not comfortable with the apartment complex she chose but i know her income is limited and she is going back to school.  Any way around it was a very emotional day.  i was so unable to sleep, i went out back and Sir found me the perfect spot to draw down the moon, being short it is always a challenge, the spot is perfect, i can see and the neighbors can't see me!  Thankfully this weekend is a quiet one in our group because i don't know how much more i could handle!.

Soulmates

So true!

This sums up my relationship with Sir so well!  Looking forward to a long weekend without #3 and hopefully some play!

Happy 4th!

Sorry for the huge gap in time on postings, we're almost half way through the first floor remodel and i've been trying to be as helpful as i can at getting it done....when i'm not working on it i'm figuring out how we can live without a kitchen, breakfast room and laundry (thank you soooooo much remissiva, she has been my lifeline for laundry, it's awesome, we do a load, run and shop, come back and change a load, hit a restaurant for lunch, and then back to do a few more loads, lol, it's awesome!)

Sir took off for the 5 day weekend, tonight he is hooking up a utility sink in the basement so i can wash dishes, then it will be back to the new subfloor in the construction area.  Tomorrow some of the kids will be here for bbq with remissiva, we're going to color my hair and then we can watch fireworks from the deck.  Saturday is Wolf's private party, we've missed the last two months due to family obligations, i can't wait to get back to it....missing my Lady!

#3 is heading back to school to finish cleaning out his apartment and to "hang with the ladies" (his words) which will give us a couple of different opportunities to play, i REALLY need it!

Have a lovely holiday all....and GO COSTA RICA (in the World Cup, that's where Sir was born!)

Feeling like a Video Night......words that matter to me....and others....

Busy Pre Weekend Prep!

Yesterday was insanely busy....breakfast out, then we shopped for statuary (i want a big gargoyle for my pond area) then waxing and then off to the piercer.  ss had decided she wanted a piercing to match mine....i brought my nipple jewelry along and she talked me into getting mine redone...pic below, bonus, a pic of my newer daily collar.

For dinner we met up with our South County Munch and had some pretty good food and live dance music.  Sir exacted his punishment for me not asking before the re-piercing but very much worth it, lol.

Today we're working on the kitchen (big surprise) and i really need to get back to it!

Construction Progress

Not a lot to say tonight, my best bud ss allowed me to do 7 loads of laundry at her house today as it seems the construction is going to be an ongoing issue.

We also had lunch at a local church that captures my heritage, i was born in a half Lebanese family, we had wonderful food from my heritage....always a good time, we also visited a really awesome store with the most interesting  stuff, i'm still considering the gargoyle statue!

Here is the remodel pic......i really wish it was moving faster but Sir does work 40+ hours for a local company and we need to take what we can get!

Obviously not as much progress as i would like, lol.  But he does have most of the new wiring in place, we still need him to place the lighting over the breakfast bar as that is where i normally have my laptop.

Sir has taken tomorrow and Friday off from work to proceed with the project, i will check in as needed.....the good news is that #3 is working at noonish tomorrow....playtime?????? Maybe!

i Love mY Boys~~~~~~~

Seriously.......REALLY, i'd die for my boys

Sir just gave me a pair of Dr. Dre  noise cancelling headphones, i have played with them in the past and totally love them....absolutely no idea what will happen next.....AWESOME!   Wearing them now as i blog and getting totally turned on!

Lots still going on at the house, the kitchen, breakfast room and laundry room are still gutted, i am struggling to pull it together, my most strong trigger is things being out of place or having a claustrophobic situation..... not doing well at all!  Sir is tiring to help me through but it's not an optimal situation.  

My best bud is thinking about a body mod, it might it be what i need right now to put me back into the right place, for me it would be re-piercing my nipples, i had to take them out a while back because the were migrating out.....that isn't the mod she is looking for, it is actually one that i have had for about 8 years, i have found it to be an excellent mod......i would never discourage anyone from getting it.  Still no ready for another tatt.....gotta find one that would be something that i would consider worthy.......

Happy Father's Day!

#1, #2, Sir, #4 (#3 had to work)

Happy Father's Day, here is a rare picture of my Sir and 3 of our 4 sons.  We held our annual BBQ at #1 and his wife's house since we are under construction.

The last two days have been very stressful, we've had a brand new fawn who is clinging to our house and we were worried that her mother had abandoned her, talked with a conservation officer this morning and they assure me that she is fine and that this is normal....it is stressing me out!

With that i'm out, gotta go measure the lighting fixtures he is placing in the kitchen.