Contracts & Limit Lists?

My day was pretty uneventful so i was wondering what to talk about...and it hit me....contracts and limit lists.  i have two friends currently in the situation where they might need them.

We don't have a contract, our wedding vows are pretty much our contract although i do have a set of rules to follow (most of them are on the left under...rules), but when we first started in the lifestyle we did fill out limit or more accurately interest lists.  Probably 6 months ago i revisted my original list and it was pretty funny...things i had listed as hard limits, for example needles, yep, i've done them, yep, i've enjoyed them.  Honestly i could probably pretty much throw out the list entirely and give him just a few things that i will not do (scat, watersports, animals, you get the idea) .and everything else i leave to his discretion.  Of course, i understand that we are in a much different situation than  most folks, and i firmly believe that contracts (sample contract here) and limit lists are a must when starting a relationship, as is good communication.


i'd love to hear about anyone else's rules, contracts or limit lists.

In other news...today was boring.  i chit chatted with some friends, i have some friends that have a lot going on in their lives right now, fortunately...i do not.  That just means i can be a supportive friend and hopefully pull some of the slack away from them.  Heaven knows they were here for me when i needed to talk.


i did sell the extra refrigerator!  Yay for the money and yay for getting it out of my garage!   Now i just need to sell the dollhouse, i knew would be harder to sell, a much smaller market for a high end collectible. 


Ok, off to get ice cream, yes, i can't eat it...but Sir invited me so i'll go along.