Update

So sorry i haven't been around much.  My birthday hit me hard and i haven't bounced back the way i normally do.

Our local community has lots of drama going on, two of our board members have resigned and it will be interesting to see how this all pans out.  One of the people who resigned was the person in charge of the committee i'm on, Sir and i have been on the edge of pulling away from our private group and i think this change will probably be thge nail in the coffin, so to speak.  We have many wonderful friends who don't enjoy the drama, don't need to play the high schoolish games and just want to get together and share in our kinkiness.  Only time will tell how this plays out.

The other thing that has been distancing me from my blog is the fact that i've very tentatively been talking to my ex.  She's in a much different place than she was before, a much better place in my opinion.  We'll see how that works out as well!