Temporary Uncollaring...

Sir and i are taking a step back and renegotiating our M/s relationship.  In order for me to be able to do that fairly i returned his collar.  Don't worry, this is not an all doom and gloom situation it's just that after 3 years we felt like we needed to kinda reprocess some things.  Does it feel strange not to have his collar on my neck, you bet, but it also allows me the freedom to discuss things in a more open way.  i don't expect this to take long but i'll keep you all informed.

Last night i found out that #3 is going to finish his semester at school and is then going to move home and enroll here in town.  i know he's been struggling since the breakup with his girlfriend and i'm absolutely thrilled that he's going to come home and do some healing, i applaud him for realizing that he needs help and seeking it out.