Woot! i've Made a Connection!

So i have had a profile on OK Cupid for a while, i had one woman interested but it just kinda fizzled....i now have a new one, married (like me) husband has no interest in being involved (like me) life here in the same state with me (excellent point, no Pennsylvania residency is a plus) and thinks i'm awesome (a wonderful boost to my ego) she wants to get together, sooner rather than later....she wants exclusivity, something that is important to me...this could work!!!!  i'm still carrying baggage from the ex, still finding it hard to fully commit but somehow after chatting with "k" i think i can work through that, she's willing to work the process with me...does it get any better than that????  i just spent a couple of hours chatting with her, this is the third or fourth several hours long chats that we've had and she is interested in making the trip here over the weekend to meet....wow, why is it so hard for me to think that i can possibly be what another woman wants, why is it so hard to get past the betrayal of the ex...i'm ready to take the next step, i don't want any more random, non committed relationships, i want exclusivity and she is offering it....guess i need to step outside the betrayal and try again....i'll let you know how it goes!