i tried to slow down a bit today, administered both my antibiotics at 9 this morning per schedule and gathered the laundry so that i could get it started. Last night Sir told me i was not to carry the laundry, i was to either get #4 to help or wait until he got home...he even ended that command with a "or else" obviously he knows me well and knew i would try to get it done one way or another...what's significant about that is that punishment is not a part of our relationship, he considers me an adult and knows that if i fully understand his wishes that i will comply, no threat is necessary, and truly that is the way we work, if i mess up knowing that i have disappointed him is as much punishment as i need. Needless to say.....i texted #4 when it was time to take the laundry down the stairs, he did it within 2 minutes and i started laundry. When Sir got home he carried the clean laundry up the stairs, i did not even consider doing it myself. And so our dynamic worked as it always does :)
i'm trying to get the new graduation party info out, i was going to try to do it next weekend and decided that was ridiculous there is no way i can do it well and #4 deserves to have the best party possible. It's now scheduled for June 29th.
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Isn't that lovely? That actually looks good compared to my belly where i had 16 heparin injections...Sir wanted to know who beat me up, lol. |
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