my Affirmation


"i patiently follow the guidance of my higher self on the path to enlightenment."

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Home Sweet Home!

Home, sweet, home!  i came home last night and i couldn't be happier!  ss brought me home since Sir had an interview and soon after the home care nurse came to drop off my supplies and show my how to manage my IV drug administration, funny, it was the same nurse i had 2.5 years ago...After he left #4 drove me to the store, he was completely out of the foods that he will eat, and hadn't wanted to bother his father while he was trying to manage the house and taking care of me at the hospital.  #4 had also been taking care of as many of my chores as he could figure out, when i arrived home he was loading the dishwasher, he is a really good kid!

i tried to slow down a bit today, administered both my antibiotics at 9 this morning per schedule and gathered the laundry so that i could get it started.  Last night Sir told me i was not to carry the laundry, i was to either get #4 to help or wait until he got home...he even ended that command with a "or else" obviously he knows me well and knew i would try to get it done one way or another...what's significant about that is that punishment is not a part of our relationship, he considers me an adult and knows that if i fully understand his wishes that i will comply, no threat is necessary, and truly that is the way we work, if i mess up knowing that i have disappointed him is as much punishment as i need.  Needless to say.....i texted #4 when it was time to take the laundry down the stairs, he did it within 2 minutes and i started laundry.  When Sir got home he carried the clean laundry up the stairs, i did not even consider doing it myself.  And so our dynamic worked as it always does :)

i'm trying to get the new graduation party info out, i was going to try to do it next weekend and decided that was ridiculous  there is no way i can do it well and #4 deserves to have the best party possible.  It's now scheduled for June 29th.

Isn't that lovely?  That actually looks good compared to my belly where i had 16 heparin injections...Sir wanted to know who beat me up, lol.
So, i'm home alone tonight, Sir took #4 to the movies.  #1 and #1.5 are coming by later with a pot of taco soup for us to munch on.  i need to hook back up for my antibiotic at 9 pm and then i'll probably crash.  Although i'm feeling so much better i still get tired quickly.  And with that...i'm off to watch some of the recorded shows that have piled up.  Have a great night all!


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