i am collared, almost 2 years now, i won't lie and say that earning my collar was difficult for me, it wasn't. We started researching and attending local events and i was collared very soon after, of course we are married to each other and finding another Dominant was never even a consideration for me.
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| Daily Collar |
We chose my silver daily collar together, i only take it off for medical reasons (i had a vicious pneumonia last year that ended up in an ICU stay, a couple of CAT scans and dozens of chest x-rays), the tag is engraved with Always & Forever on the front and our wedding date on the back.
Sir does take it off and replace it with my play collar, but i NEVER take my collar off on my own, not ever.
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| Play Collar |
We tried a third collar, one that i could wear to lifestyle events that was more obviously a collar than my daily but yet vanilla enough to be around vanilla folks, it just didn't work for either of us.
What does my collar mean to me...it means i am owned, absolutely and completely. i am loved, cherished, and above all i am His. It means i know, beyond a doubt, that He will catch me if i fall and that i can trust Him to be there for me in all things.
What does my collar mean to Him? In His words...
- you trust Me to take care of you,
- to make descions that will benefit you the most,
- that I will protect you and keep you from harm,
- you know I will be here to take care of all problems, both big and small,
- and you love Me very much for allowing Me to put it on you.
Obviously our views on my collar, and His ownership of me are pretty much in alignment.
So, if you are collared what does it mean to you? To your dynamic? If you aren't, what would you want your collar to mean if you were to accept one?
