Do you procrastinate, or are you always ahead of schedule? Is it difficult to adjust your habits to someone else’s preference if they are procrastinators and you are not, or vice versa?
This topic is always an issue for us. i am never late for anything, i'm usually there 30 minutes early...Sir on the other hand is late for everything, jumping in the shower 10 minutes before we are supposed to leave. It's very difficult for me as my anxiety increases with each passing moment.
How i have worked with it...i manage the family online calendar, for activities that i am really concerned about being on time for, i put them on the calendar at an earlier time, usually 15 - 30 minutes earlier. Now before you start thinking that i am being deceptive, Sir knows i do this He just doesn't know which calendar events i've done it for. It seems to be working pretty well for us!
How do you handle these issues in your relationship? i'd love to know, perhaps someone has an even better solution for us. Feel free to leave comments below!
