Play/Scene, What Does It Mean to you?

What is the purpose of play/scene for you?  What do you hope to get out of the experience?


Taken from Submissive Guide once again!

Wow, big topic...i find that a scene is a great way to reconnect with Sir.  We never seem closer than when we are in our playroom, with both of our heads in the right place and connected.  There is no way for us to play without the connection, it just doesn't happen.  Everything else just fades away and it is us, raw and full of emotion.  For me especially, it is my down time, a time where i recharge my batteries so i can serve him best.


What do you get from your play/scene?  i'd love to hear about it.  Hit the comments section or email me directly at mcmoonshadow.

Journal - Last Night's Scene

i promised to share the next time we scened.  Yay, we did last night.  This is going to be pretty much a rundown of the play session we had.


i received my text to be ready and waiting at 9:25 last night.  Sir knows that i like everything i do to be on a quarter or half hour, hence the fact that he put me off balance with 9:25, it's those little things that make our sessions so much more intense.  i was kneeling naked in the center of the RROP (red room of pain, it's what we call the dungeon, and yes, it is red!)  Sir came in about 5-10 minutes later and collared me per our usual protocol and attached the nipple clamps to my nipple rings leaving the chain to swing.  i was told to crawl to my corner and wait for Him.  He came to my corner and put the ankle and wrist cuffs on, He then used the snap hooks to connect them to each other.  Sir told me to stay there kneeling until he came back.  The music was on, and the floor of the RROP is made from anti-fatigue matting so i couldn't really hear anything.  i started my relaxation and focusing activities until He came back. i was blindfolded and was told to "service" Him, i gave Him a pretty spectacular blow job :)  i was sent back to my corner kneel and wait while He set up the room the way He wanted.  He never wants to set up in advance, He likes to keep me guessing and if He was to set up or more the furniture around i would be anticipating.


When He came for me He led me to the table and laid me across it on the long side, He then attached the longest spreader bar to my ankle cuffs.  He started to attach my wrist cuffs to rope that was tied to the eye bolt and ring in the ceiling but realized that wasn't going to work well with my newly tattooed wrists so he exchanged the regular cuffs with the suspension cuffs that put less pressure on my inner wrists (see, this is what i love about Him, i didn't say a word about how uncomfortable the cuffs were but he could just tell!).  So, i was bent over the table with my arms suspended behind me to the ceiling.  All in all, it's actually a pretty nice position, i couldn't move much but i didn't want to.

Now, i must say that Sir is a Master at ramping.  He took a class at our last big event on the Art of Ramping with Master Galland.  His techniques have really helped us increase my pain tolerance.  The basic principal is to build slowly and to work as a team, meaning that Sir watches my breathing, my movements, the way i tense my body and uses the cues to show Him when to increase the intensity of the strikes and when to back off at just the right time to allow me to handle more. If you ever have the opportunity to attend one of Master Galland's classes i would highly recommend it.


Now comes the fun part....Sir started by just running His hands all over me, light touch, not so light touch, fingernails scratching.  i could then feel something wooden, today i saw that it was the medium cane, used with carefully placed light impact, these strikes covered my legs, ass and back....as i eased into the sensation He started using more force and with that....i got a text message on my phone, ignored it...second text....Sir checks my phone and it is my 16 year old son who lives with us, he's been throwing up and wants something for it...REALLY, right now, but duty as a mom comes before duty as a submissive.  i got dressed took him down some medicine, he said he was going back to bed so i make my way back to the RROP...can i say that my whole focus and space was gone!  Sir tried to get me back where i had been but it just wasn't working so He changed things up, decided i was such a good subbie and mom that i deserved a little fun, He played with my nipple rings, now this drives me insane, they are so sensitive, He laid me down on the bed and grabbed the hitachi...7 orgasms later i was totally out of myself!  i just curled up in a ball, Sir covered me with my favorite soft blanket and i zoned.  Eventually i made it back to the floor to be uncollared and off to bed i went.


Ok, so that's pretty much a look at one of more crazy scenes, the text really messed things up, but that's the life we lead, our kids always come first before our D/s stuff, and they always will!  And, on that note, our 3rd son, the one who is away at school, will be in town for the next 5 days, probably not much scening to be had here.


Questions, comments, want to share your story?  Hit the Comment button below.

Now What Do We Do?

"Love well, whip well."~Benjamin Franklin

Sometimes things are going along wonderfully and then BAM!  For us that happened in February of this year.  We're pretty much balanced in our needs in the playroom, i like pain and He's able to give it to me.  In November of last year Sir fell down the stairs, He tore his rotator cuff.  We were able to play but most of the impact play was very uncomfortable for Him.  In February He had surgery to repair what ended up being a much larger tear than they thought in His dominant arm.  For six weeks He was completely immobilized in a splint and even after that with all the physical therapy He was mostly unable to use that arm.


i need pain, i'm a masochist and when i don't get pain play i'm not a very happy person. After about 8 weeks i was at a pretty miserable place.  Sir and i are monogamous in our play, we don't play in public and we don't play with other people.  A very dear Dominant friend approached Sir and offered to scene with me in the privacy of their home (they have an awesome dungeon).  Sir recognized that i really needed it and agreed, Sir Michael and His submissive were there, as were Sir and i.  The scene went well and we were all feeling good about it, there were no sexual overtures, Sir Michael and his sub are completely monogamous too.  It was all about giving me what i needed at that time.  Since then i have scened with Sir Michael three other times, again with all parties present.  During this time Sir scened with me in our dungeon but was just more creative.  He used rope, wax, and even microbranding, all things he could do without the use his arm.


At this point Sir is able to use His arm pretty well and i don't think we will need to have Sir Michael help us out.  i know how hard the decision to allow Sir Michael into our dynamic was for Sir, He's extremely possessive and i know He would not have made that decision if He hadn't known where i was and how much i needed it.  


i don't kid myself into thinking that these same issued don't come up for other D/s, M/s couples.  i'd love to know how other couples deal with these issues.  Please respond by comment and let me know!